12 Mar Life Lessons After 50
There are some things I do know for certain now…and yep…it took me to get to the OTHER aspect of 50 (51 right here) to actually “get” them. Now that I do know them, I wish to share them with you in hopes they could allow you to!
❤️ We by no means know what another person goes by way of or strolling by way of. So earlier than judging, snapping at, attacking, or being mad at them know they might be navigating one thing very consuming.
❤️ Seems to be as we knew them fade and we age: that’s unavoidable. It’s alright to attempt to ‘repair’, restore, stop, reverse and so on… however in the end we WILL AGE. So be sure you put your worth in much more than simply appearances.
❤️ Family and friends matter greater than accomplishments and a to-do checklist. I’m sorry to any buddy or member of the family that I ever stated I used to be “too busy” to find time for. The reality of the matter was, I simply took time and what really issues without any consideration. Having dinner with my brother the opposite evening jogged my memory of this in a significant manner. P.S. I dwell throughout the county from my household. Make amends or say sure to plans NOW, as someday will probably be “too late” and we’re actually not “too busy”.
❤️ I’ve lived an expansive life and I notice a lot of my development and completely happy recollections are from these expansive experiences! I’m planning an enormous fats YES to extra growth instantly — why not?
❤️ End up a partner that FULLY LOVES you and is dedicated to your marriage. Don’t accept much less. It’s much better to be alone than to be in a loveless marriage.
❤️ Materials issues don’t matter. I’ve wasted more cash on these “issues” than I can rely over time. I now need cash for the consolation, comfort, and skill to assist and make a distinction…not for ridiculously costly possessions that really maintain no actual “worth” exterior of the label and price ticket.
❤️ We are able to’t management ANYTHING. We are able to definitely attempt to do all of the issues we expect we’re purported to do! However, in the end WE will not be in cost. God is.
❤️ Religion is all the pieces. Why did it take me so lengthy to get that?
❤️ Laughter is important. I’ll proceed to poke enjoyable at myself, getting old, sizzling flashes, being GenX, and extra as a result of we have to LAUGH MORE!
❤️ We have no idea all the pieces. Not now and never ever. I now not assume YOU or anybody is “unsuitable” about something. All of us simply have totally different fashions of the world and what “is”.
❤️ These are my random ideas ❤️
